The multiplicity-scaled integrated yield $((\mathrm{d}N/\mathrm{d}y)/(\langle\mathrm{d}N_{\mathrm{ch}}/\mathrm{d}\eta\rangle_{|\eta|<0.5}))$ (upper panels) and mean transverse momentum $(\langle p_{\mathrm{T}}\rangle)$ (bottom panels) for K*$^0$ (left panels) and $\phi$ (right panels) as a function of $\langle\mathrm{d}N_{\mathrm{ch}}/\mathrm{d}\eta\rangle_{|\eta|<0.5}$ measured in the ALICE central barrel in pp collisions at $\sqrt{s}$ = 7, 13 TeV, in p$-$Pb collisions at $\sqrt{s_{\rm NN}} =$ 5.02 , 8.16 TeV and Pb$-$Pb collisions at $\sqrt{s_{\rm NN}} =$ 2.76 , 5.02 TeV. Measurements are compared with the predictions from EPOS-LHC, DPMJET and HIJING for p$-$Pb collisions at $\sqrt{s_{\rm NN}} =$ 8.16 TeV. Statistical uncertainties are represented as bars, boxes indicate total systematic uncertainties.